Tuesday, January 15, 2008

How to get over a breakup


Breaking up is an almost universal experience, and it's one I've been going through lately. So in my quest to do this correctly, or mitigate the pain in some way that doesn't involve ingesting illicit substances, I googled to a relevant site at wikihow. I am to accept my pain, talk to my friends (but not too much) and keep my distance. I'd say I've fallen down in the keep my distance category. I'm now making up for that failure, and it hurts a lot. Maybe trying to be friends prevents honestly accepting that it's over.

But but but....to keep someone totally out of your life who was so important just weeks ago? Does it make sense?

Can you be friends after a break up? If the partner in question has lots of good qualities as a friend? I'd love to know your thoughts.

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